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How can I tell if a guy is interested in me?
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Do singles have questions about dating and relationships? They sure do! If you have a question about a relationship quandary, just go to the

Janice--There’s this guy that started talking to me about a month ago and I
don't know if he likes me or not. We don't talk much because every time I pass
by his house he's with his friends, but he leaves them to talk to me when he sees
me and greets me with a big smile and a kiss on the cheek. How can I tell if he’s
really interested in me? Melanie


Dear Melanie-- If a guy is truly interested in a woman, he will do whatever it
takes to pursue her. If this guy has not done anything more than just be friendly
to you when you walk by, then he is not interested in more than that. What I would
suggest is that you work on yourself to develop a good sense of self-worth, so
that you'll believe that you deserve a man who truly wants you. You won't have to
ever wonder if he's interested in you, because he will definitely pursue you. This
is how men are and what men like.


If you're having difficulty deciphering the behaviors that you observe in men,
and determining how to move a relationship forward, you're a good candidate for
Personal Coaching. I invite you to contact me so that you can ask me more specific
questions, or we can begin strategizing how to attain the kind of relationship that
you really want.


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. Posted by: Janice on Tuesday, September 23, 2003 - 11:40 PM   .
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Oct 03, 2005 - 07:42 PM
Interested

I went on a date on Saturday...not sure if he interested..he wore jeans and sneakers...never called me


Oct 03, 2005 - 07:44 PM
interested

He sent me a text message on Sunday afternoon and at 9pm..tellin me he was goin to his bed...then he sent OXOXOXOX.on one text..what clues can i see and kno that i am interested

Janice
Oct 07, 2005 - 01:36 PM
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You can respond back to his initial efforts one time. If he's interested, he will follow up. If he doesn't attempt to get in contact with you again, then I'd say he's not interested in you. You can try and contact him yourself again, but you run the risk of taking the fuel out of his jets, or being disappointed because "he's just not that into you."


Oct 20, 2005 - 06:49 PM
I need help

So there's this guy that I like. But I don't know if he likes me back. We've been out twice but it's been like a group date and I'm not the one who's asked him it's been my guy friend cause I'm kinda shy. He asks me a lot of questions when we are alone but we were with the group he kind of strays off. What do you think? My friend says that the guys interested but I'm not for sure please please I need some advice


Oct 26, 2005 - 07:37 PM
How to know he's interested

I met this guy.He's collegue of mine.Briefly what happen was he loves my companionship,thats one thing that i'm pretty sure about but i'm kindda unsure if he likes me more than just a friend.He always say stuffs like 'Where have you been all this while' , 'what am i gonna do without you' , sometimes try to make jokes by telling i love you and stuffs like that.I think he likes me but he also said that it's bad idea to date a collegue.So the situation here i'm sort of know that he likes me but something else is keeping him away.Sometimes it annoys me that he goes yoyo about this.What should i do?i do like him but not yet to be a boyfriend.I'm not looking forward of having any relationship with but frienship with him for time being.What should i do?Should i give him a chance since i feel comfortable with him too or should i just ignore this and wait for what happens.At this moment i'm giving it up and just being a bit cold

Janice
Oct 28, 2005 - 05:00 PM
Re. How to know if he's interested
I'm posting this question on the Message Board so that others can see it better, and then be able to give their impressions or opinions. Mine will be there too, so go to He Says/She Says Forum on the Message Board now!

Nov 23, 2005 - 04:35 AM
Re. i dont know if my boyfriend loves me

ive been with him for 3 years now! i cant tell if he loves me a much as he did when we first met. do blokes feeling change after a while? please help me


Nov 27, 2005 - 03:21 PM
Re. i dont know if my boyfriend loves me

feelings will always change


Dec 12, 2005 - 10:49 PM
I really need some advice here...

Alright so it all happened about a month or more ago. I was at a highschool football game with a couple of my friends. It was so cold outside that we decided to take a walk around the stands to warm up. When we walked by this group of guys, I turned around to walk back the other way when I noticed a few of them looking at me. I didn't think anything of it, but one guy caught my eye. He looked at me from the time I walked by til the time I walked back around. When we were walking back by them again one of that guy's friends yelled out "Hey Sam! Who's your friend?" She told him my first name and then he asked for my last name. After that was over with, I still saw that guy looking at me. That's what got me wondering if he was interested in me and had one of his friends ask for my name. Later after the game, he still makes eye contact with me when I see him, but I still haven't spoken to him. So I'm not sure....


Dec 16, 2005 - 09:53 PM
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I need help.. i dont do well with guys. I have never been anle to tell a guy i like him because I am afraid of rejection. I like this guy but I can not tell if he likes me back. We have had a couple of conversations texting each other but when we are in person we dont really talk to each other. What should I do? I dont really know how to flirt with a guy and I get to nervouse to just come out and ask him


Dec 17, 2005 - 07:37 AM
Interested

I dont think his interested in you. if u want u can try to call him


Dec 17, 2005 - 07:42 AM
DONT HAVE A CLUE

there is this guy that i like, i think he likes me too coz he smiles at me and he looks at me heaps. BUt i dont know what to say or do to show that im interested in him.


Dec 22, 2005 - 05:19 AM
Re. i dont know if my boyfriend loves me

i think people can change and i also think that in any goos relationship you should be very sure that the person loves you because if they are in love with you they cant help but let it show. im not a huge expert in relationships and maybe im a bit niave but i dont see the point in a relationship if the other person doesnt make you feel like the most wonderful and loved person in the world. Here are 2 things i know about relationships a,i can almost guarantee that in every serious relationship at some stage in the relationship the people did feel like the most lucky people alive and there is no reason for that to go away if you still feel the same about each other and b, if youve never felt that way then you shouldnt be with them at all you should be looking for your prince charming never just settle for second best. If your willing to love someone then there will be someone out there willing to love you. everybody deserves to be loved its one of the few lasting pleasures in life


Dec 30, 2005 - 10:29 PM
I need help

I say that if he is really interested in you he would still ask you questions in the group just like if you were alone.


Jan 01, 2006 - 02:54 PM
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Hi I've been talking to this guy on the msn. My friends decided to play a sad joke on him and I. The pretended to be me. He found out and when I had stated that 'I?m fuming since I found out and believe it?s understandable you will be annoyed too. I don?t blame you if you don?t what to persist on getting to know me further'

He replied stating this:

'Well obviously i would still like to know you a bit better.....what your friends have done i can't even be sure if i'm speaking to a genuine person anymore. And i know thats not your fault in any way at all but what am i supposed to think now?

But if it is a good thing then i wouldn't want to let it go on account of something as trivial as this'.

When things got sorted they sent him another. I cleared it with him again and sent this 'I can?t be arsed to keep explaining myself every time they decide to pull ones leg. I want to get to know you better but the twisted SHIT heads are making this impossible. Can we just talk over the phone; here at least it can be a two way conversation not three. If yes then I?ll be online on Monday evening around 10 and I?ll give you my number.'

He know he sent this

'You know what, I?m interested but this has just put me off BIG TIME.'

What shall I do and isn't he interested anymore?

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