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dana04
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Post subject: should i continue dating him
 Posted: Jul 18, 2010 - 09:01 AM
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Joined: Jul 16, 2006
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| I dated this guy five years ago, in 2005, for two month then, i left him because i didn't like him. . After i broke up with him, we remain friends. for the next four years he would always take me out, trying to get back to me, but the answer would always be no. if we do not go out he would come to my house, or me to his usually. but nothing ever happen no matter how he try. if im sick, he would take me to the ER, wait untill i'm called in, then come back for me. other time he would pick me up from my house to his office just to watch movie with him. he even proposed me to be with him, he would pay my rent so i could go to school. still i did not want to take advantage of him and his good nature. then, in late 2008, i dropped the ball when he told me to stop by his place. I told him im pregnant with somebodyelse baby. he did not believe it untill he saw papers from my obgyn saying so. he asked me for how far i was, and i said two. he told me to have an abortion so he can married me i said no. then from this day i never hear from him again. I got married. in late 2009, when my baby was about 6 monts I called him. at the same time he asked to see me. then he came to see me the next day. before he left he looked at me and said: "I loved you alot, I loved you a whole lot. I still love you". when he said that i felt so bad, specially im being mistreated by my husband. he asked me for a hug,. i did hug him, and that was the first time i ever felt something for him. ever since he kept calling me very often, and stopped by to see me, eventually i cheated with him on my husband. four months later, i got separed with my husband due to his baby mama drama. not becaue of our affair. when talking, he told me he was in love with a girl when he was 17. he is 36 no. that girl broke his heart. he always say he will never fall in love again because this thing happen only once. i did not really care because i had a boyfriend whom i was in love with, but my hear is open to love. this time, we were talking and he said that 90% of his heart belong to that girl, and he really loved that girl no matter what she did to hin he would have forgiven her. he also told me another that that he saw her at walmart with her husband, and he said to himself tht he should have been him with her. and all of this when i brought them up, he don't even remember saying any of these. the fact that he don't remember concerned me. i feel like he still caught in that past relationship, and his heart is not open to love. THEREFORE I HAVE NO FEELING FOR HIM ANYMORE . IM JUST TRYING TO BE WITH HIM, BUT IM NOT SURE I CAN DO IT. need help thank you |
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