Reality Dating Forum - DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO HELP ME PLZ beautifuladyj - Dec 18, 2009 - 03:14 AM Post subject: DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO HELP ME PLZ
Ive meet this guy he says he's n a relationship at the moment but we spend a lot of time together on the phone and everything we even go to the same church. He tells his family im his future.What should i do continue to see were this goes even though he said he was n a relationship at the moment or move on??
Janice - Feb 03, 2010 - 08:46 PM Post subject:
If this guy is "in a relationship" with another woman right now, then why is he spending time with you? This makes me worry that he is not getting what he needs from his girlfriend, so he's looking to get it from you. Regardless, if he's telling you that you're his "future," then he is basically cheating on his girlfriend.
I suggest you tell him that you are not available to hang out, or go to church or other events with him, alone, until and unless he is truly single. You can wait to see where it goes, but how much time do you want to waste waiting for him? Or you can move on with your life and find someone who is not attached (or even semi-attached) to someone else. You deserve to be with someone who is truly ready, willing and able to make a commitment. Good luck!