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I am really growing in all areas of my life because of your coaching. I'm continuing to utilize the skills I developed during our work & find that I am more confident to entertain new potential relationships. I am indebted to you, Janice. Many blessings!
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Hi Janice, I am an educated and attractive 24 year old lady looking to meet a
marriage minded man. I'm very successful in my career, but like many career-oriented
young people in my line of work, I spend many hours at my job. I am finding it
very difficult to meet young single men. Do you have any suggestions? Do you think
I should hire a matchmaker to help me out? What do you think? Rachel
Dear Rachel, First of all, I want to congratulate you for having succeeded in
your career as a result of your hard work. I have to suggest, however, that in
order to be successful at finding a husband, that you make time in your life to
seriously attend to your social life. That means that you make dating a priority,
by thinking about where to go, who to talk to and network with, and how to present
yourself as marriage-minded. Alternatively, if you just squeeze dating into a
busy work schedule, you may not get the results that you want.
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Hiring a matchmaker can only help you reach your goal of marriage. A matchmaker
is experienced in meeting many people and getting to know their special qualities
very quickly, and will work on your behalf to introduce you to men whom she thinks
would be a good match. It is important that, as you meet the various candidates,
you articulate what you liked and disliked about each of them. That way, she can
get to know better who to set you up with next. Obviously, this takes time and
energy, so don't be surprised when you hear the fee that she charges. I highly
recommend that you ask for references before hiring any matchmaker.
If anyone has worked with a matchmaker, perhaps they can post their experiences
to share with others :-)
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Posted by: Janice on Thursday, October 02, 2003 - 02:00 AM
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